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Originally Posted by tatertot15  Dont get me wrong, I'm happy i'm not my sister and i'm glad I am smart enough to fend for myself and to take a good job when its offered. I just dont get why i'm treated like the one that is dumb and worthless. I argee that until my mom understands she is not helping my sister she will never learn, but I also think my sister is doing this on purpose just so she'll have more money in the long run. When I first moved out I told my mom about some lamps I wanted to go buy from Walmart, so my mom goes to walmart and calls me and said which color did you want then she added in really quick that the silver ones were more expensive and how she didnt really have the money for this right now but she was going to buy them....then she said if I can find shades cheap enough i'll buy them too but if not you'll have to buy them. I was thinking if its that much of a hassle to spend $40 on your daughter when you are spending many $100 on my sister than forget about it, I dont want your money. DH is trying to calm me down and says that as soon as the baby shower is over we'll stay away from them all for a while. I need to be away from them....ever since I moved out my mom calls multiple times a day and wont give me any space. And all she does on the phone is nag me and talk about my sister....its like cant you just call and say "how was your day" or something like that instead of that crap....grr just makes me so mad. I just need to get away from everyone right now....I want my own life and I want to do it by myself because in the long run I dont want my mom saying well I did this for you and this and this and you are ungrateful blah blah....nope she cant say that to me becuase I did MY life on MY OWN. |
I am so glad to see that you truely understand that this is not heathy for anyone!!
Maybe you can get an answering machine or caller ID, so you don't have to answer when it is your mom. There is nothing that says, you have to answer everytime she calls.
