I talked to Connie today and my heart is breaking so bad for her.  I feel so far away and wish I could just do something for her to make her feel better.  She feels as though she has lost one of her very own kids.  Judy and her are very very close and she loves Rich just like one of her own.   Connie is so torn up about this.  She's still not even over the death of her Mom and now this.  Its so hard to understand when things like this happen.  Like I told ya Connie I'm hear for you any hour of any day, dont hesitate to call, even if its just to cry your eyes out.  Love ya Dear!!!!
