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Originally Posted by Graleyne  DUG kept looking at him like he expected him to defend him and finally DH told him flat out that I was right and that he agreed with me that DUG was taking advantage of us and that he was also tired of him behaving as if the world owed him a living.
Which was pretty much what I was saying only I put it a lot more "colorfully". 
So basically DUG cried and pulled his usual "oh poor pitiful me, my parents are dead I don't have anyone the whole world is against me guess I'll go eat worms" bullsh*t.
Now, I know its hard losing your parents. I really do. My bio dad died 3 years ago and my great parents (who are the ones who raised me) died when I was in my teens.
I sympathize with losing a parent(s). However, as an ADULT (especially one who will turn 47 on Friday), its part of life. His parents did not pass recently. It has been 10+ years.
I feel guilty for being mean, but I think he needed to hear a lot of what I said. He doesn't take hints very well so bluntly was the only way I felt I had to go. |
No you did the right thing. When he asked to stay this time you laid down the law and he agreed. If he refuses to do anything to help himself then that is on him...his choices are what will make him eat worms.
Glad your hubby realized and is not falling for the stupidity anymore.
Your a good person and you have gone way above and beyond so dont' feel bad for finally blowing up.