LOL! I remember when you were so excited about getting her a coach purse, and then she got YOU one.
What a sweetheart! (Is that the same daughter?)
I've never heard of XOXO purses, but try checking ebay and craigslist. They have some great prices!
Just be careful about fakes. I've seen some helpful hint buying guides that tell you how to watch out when buying designer bags.
good luck!