One of my friend suggested keeping her in a kennel until she learns to hold it and then bringing her into the bed..what do yall think? I am wondering if since I already started her in the bed if she would feel abandoned and sad

Then I also worry that she will hold it in her kennel and then when I bring her back into the bed we will have the same thing. She is still young so hopefully it is just puppy but I want to try to train her out of it and help her hold it asap..for my own sanity