oh my gosh.. first of all I hope your prego.. sounds like it to me.. and I also want to say I think it is so wonderful that you have your sisters daughter..I am soo sorry you lost her.. I too lost a sister, but she was not as young as that..her baby was in university..
I also want to say.. you need to find out for sure if you are..take the test asap so it is off your mind.. then you need to take time to be able to tell this child and help her understand..
I can feel you being overwhelmed and you have every right to be.. gee I wish I were closer to give you some huge hugs and let you know it will all work out for the best.. but I cannot do that so I am just going to have to put it in the post..
But you need to take care of you.. so you can take care of that lilttle girl you now have and possibly another on the way..anne |