[Marlee]

Ok, so I am the dissenting opinion here...lol

I loved Jesse from the beginning. He was not afraid to be himself. Many of those guys looked the right way and said all the right things. But I have been down that road before and it does not always mean happily ever after. He is her same age, so I would think they are both kid like if anything. Also just because he is a pro snowboarder does not make him a bum! In reality while doing that his endorsements could land much more than a lawyer can make in a year. Yes the career is shorter, but why not do what you love and get paid big bucks while you can. Heck one of my brothers was just dinking around a few years and made a lot of money. He now has a great regular 9-5 job that he likes but makes way less. ( He blew his knee) And he was not a pro, just a local.

I think jumping into a relationship with a man and a child is a bit scarey, because it is not only them you have to worry about, then there is the ex factor and other things most do not see from the outside. And yes I can say this because I had a child pre marriage and he had 2 from a previous marriage. It sucked, because no matter how hard I tried to be with that woman, nothing I did was ever ok. Now fortunately for us, after 6 years of harassment because she was jealous she has moved on, but the first several years were tough.

Also not everyone has ideal grammar. I am one that knows this personally,( I struggle with this everyday) and if you are going to judge someone because they say your the best, instead of you're the best, that is pretty petty and you could miss out on some great people. At least he was willing to be himself, be honest and in the end I think the both will be very happy.

After 12 years I still feel like a giddy school girl with my husband, and I would not have it any other way. We are best friends and polar opposites, and 12 years later still feel like newly weds. SO I wish them well


ok I am off my soapbox now, let the beating begin...