My boys are not big into kids either. They are more afraid of them than trying to scare them though. I am trying to get them more into kids by letting the kids hold them and not picking them up when they cry to be picked up because a kid is around. I know they are like this because they really have never been around kids... but I hate it bc it makes the kids so upset. My bf has 2 kids and its been 6 months together and my boys still will not go to his youngest (12) on thier own.
good Luck with your baby... wish I could help more!