Welcome Paxton, PtVintage  & almighty-peanut    
  
Welcome to Yorkietalk.  After reading both of your posts, I am so very sorry that you had this horrid experience.  PtVintage - to sounds like you have a "keeper" in your almighty_peanut.  What a wonderful guy to look for and find a Yorkie for you all on his own and to surprise you.  The thought of it all makes me weepy.  Oh to be so young and in love !!!!! 
I am very very sorry for the terrible condition of the pup.  It breaks my heart to hear of poor sick pups being shipped across the country.  It sounds like this second vet you have has your little Paxon on the right track.  PtVintage, please don't worry about the pup "hating" you.  Once you get him through the sickness he will forget the force feeding and all the "evil" you are doing to make him well. 
Congratulations!  Can't wait to see pics of a HEALTHY Paxon and to hear all about him!