Well, its me with yes, another rant. You heard from me last when my gaggle of relatives were here.... well now they are gone and the house is back to normal. Phew, no more worrying about Bindi being fed every 15 mins.
I swear its like everyone I encounter want to do things with Bindi which I dont like/approve of. i dont think im very unreasonable in my caring for Bindi. I dont want her to be fed while the humans are eating dinner. If shes barking just ignore her. However she no longer barks or begs at least not with close family members and SO. Nor do I want her to have fried foods.
Yesterday I went to SO's house for 4th of July BBQ/Dinner. It was great food was tasty and just an overall good time. However, Bindi kept barking at SO's mom and she kept egging her on. Everytime she'd bark she'd be like what? yes? how can i help you? AND kept giving her french fries. She had like 10 fries. I wanted to say something but I didnt. I feel like everytime i see her Im complaining or saying not to do something. Since then shes thrown up 3x during the night

and i feel bad that i keep telling SO to tell his mom not to do these things. It tooks me MONTHS to get her to finally stop screaming when she saw Bindi (shed pee everytime she saw her). Now this.

any way of tactfully handling this situation? or kindly telling someone to stop?
Sorry for being so long winded.