Sorry your BIL is being a slob. He doesn't sound like a 30 yr old though. He sounds like a 20 yr old college kid. I can't believe he has you and your dh buying and cooking food. what a moocher. His idea of doing the dishes sounds like my old roommate. I use to get so frustrated. I hope it gets better soon. i'd have to say something though. I've never been good with keeping my mouth shut.
