Its' frustrating, but seriously.....there truly are some people who grew up in an environment of chaos and stress...and that's ALL they know. They can't relate normally to anything. Normal people would make choices that are more rational...like for instance, waiting to get married til you are at least somewhat financially secure so it's one less thing to worry about. Or making sure that the child thing isn't going to totally destroy the relationship. Or even waiting to get a new puppy until AFTER the wedding when the smoke has cleared....but people like her just don't GET it at all. They leap before they look and pile more and more ill-advised situations on themselves, and then complain b/c they're SO STRESSED OUT, when the worst thing happens (and it ALWAYS does, b/c they don't plan ahead for ANYTHING)....and it affects everyone around them, b/c the way it turns out is that everything gets to be ALL ABOUT THEM ALL THE TIME
. I have no patience with people like that.
And bingo...once again, she's gotten into something she didn't check out ahead of time and now has a poor innocent sick puppy on her hands that they probably don't have the money for the vet and obviously don't know anything about caring for such a small baby
. Poor little dog; I hope they get it to the vet before it's too late.
I don't blame you for being so upset. I"m upset and I don't even know either of you, LOL. I guess it's a good thing that she knows you....but not so much the other way around
. I hope the puppy will be ok and that she finds a more appropriate home for him.