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Originally Posted by Yorkiedaze  Your friend sounds like someone who is looking for something and hasn't yet found it. She is piling too many things on at once. You should try and talk to her and see if she can't do just one thing at a time. Starting with his son and work that problem out before getting married. Also renting while saving a nice size down payment on a home will be less stressful when paying a mortgage. A dog should not even be on her list. She's biting off more than she can handle right now as it is. |
She knows all this! We talked about it last week and she even said she knows she wants a dog for all the wrong reasons. She even said she just wants one until she can have another baby, which is hopefully nine months after the wedding. They are going to counseling for his son, and are saving money for a down but still!! I have spent over $1500 in vet bills since Sept. and they are struggling to pay for the wedding. I guess in a few months when she tried to re-home her I will try and help then... (Good lord your babies are precious!!!)