I am glad to hear things are working out with the new little furbaby. When we lost ours to a tragic accident we decided to get another. It is amazing how much you find yourself "comparing." In my eyes, John Wayne was perfect, and Monty has some big shoes to fill. I feel bad because I dont mean to, but it just happens. But I let Monty be himself and try not to have expectatins. Just know that I think it is OK and normal to compare. I have two kids and I find myself comparing them from time to time...
Monty, our newest addition, has helped to remember the fun times we had and he is bringing some new happy memories.
I will keep you and your family in my prayers.