I know what you mean.. and it's not silly at all. Toby is my oldest and he is just so intuned with the whole family. He sleeps in the bed and Max takes his crate even though they are move free to sleep where they like. Toby has to be in the bed by the pillow under the covers.. even hubby will notice him not there and call him lift he cover so he can get tucked in and its bedtime. Toby is just so speacial to me I love both my boys but i know it would be just that much more painful if something were to happen to him. Toby is my sensitive one, and Max well Max has no preference he'll take love from who ever adn if your busy then he'll occupy himself. Toby on the other hand, if you don't make time for him your actually "hurting" his feelings and I can tell he's bummed.
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