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Originally Posted by Marlee  I appreicate the response. I was wondering if I was off my rocker, or I had the right to be upset.
I dont think anyone person can understand unless they have tried with a tiny... It was heartbreaking.
She is not a breeder, just a cousin whom I gave a puppy a year ago, you would think she would have been more kind...  Anyways, if she says anything else, I might just bless her and her stinkin additude.  |
People will say things. We cannot please everyone. I have had to learn this, but I have spent all my life ttying to learn this lesson. Your best thing is just to ignore her.
I do understand!! I lost my little baby girl - Roxie. She was born via c-section on the 12th of this month and I tried for 5 days trying to keep her a live - doing exactly the same things as you did. I ended up loosing her too. Yes, you do hear of some of these babies surviving, but they are not the norm. The hardest part was going through all that - no sleep, loss of energy, not being able to do anything except work on our little angle. You should have seen my house! But I did not care - if I could get this pup through - was all I could think of. It just was not meant to be and she was needed more in heaven - just like your little one. So many little ones we loose them during birth - we were the lucky ones to get to know their little personalities before they had to go.
So I do understand and am here for you. The best thing you can do - is know the truth yourself and go on. Just ignore what she says because she was not there with you helping you. She doesn't understand or have a clue how hard it is or was.
All my best to you.
T.