That is so scary to hear

I have two girls. One is 2 and the other is 5 months. I see I should make sure that they know who is in charge!
There is an behavoralist here on the board with the username of ScootieBootie. Maybe drop them a line and see if they can help. Also go to the training board here on Y.T. and ask. I've seen some pretty awesome help given there.
I wish you all the luck in the world! I know how hard it would be to part with one of my girls. I don't want you to have to do it.
Love and Luck
Tammy