Hon., I am a retired military wife.. I so hated that life.. the drill the bull
sH*** that goes with it.. I was once told I was having surgery..he was booking it in front of me
I asked what was the surgery for.. I was told by the military doctor that he did not like my attitude and said it stunk.. then my hubby was called in and told you wife will have the surgery.. omg.. I hated it so much.. and lived it for 27 years out of the 31 years he was in..
You as a wife are a dependant spouse and they care nothing at all about you..unless you are in the military or have family in.. people have no way of ever understanding..
and my grandson just joined..
if anything.. I hope you know that your not alone in this military life...
anne