Oh I go out. I try to limit it to only once a week though that they are home that late alone, but I have 2 boys to keep each other company when im gone. I just feel bad already that I am gone from 730am - 6pm monday - friday and they are gated into my kitchen all that time. I try to never go out straight from work so I go home and spend some time with them then go out. Or if I do straight from work Im usually home only a couple hours later than normal, i dont spend all night out.
I love my boys and would do anything for them, but I need somewhat of a life too and I know they are safe at home when Im out.