I'd like 2 dresses in the Autumn Leaves fabric, but I need a small for my lil Essie & a medium for my Precious. I'd love for mother & daughter to match, but you only have xs

Also, can the matching bows be made into a barrette? I had a stroke & cannot use my right arm so it's impossible for me to put their hair in rubberbanded bows. Thanks so much

How much extra would this be for the custom made items since you don't have them in the size I need?