Ok, this is what I don't understand...My kids, even my 3yr old, know to ALWAYS ask an owner's permission before touching a dog and I doubt they would EVER ask to pick up someone elses dog, so WHY is it so hard for grownups?
I was at the local farmers market here, which is a pretty populated event, and had my boy in his stroller which was zipped up. I actually had someone come over and start to UNZIP the stroller so she could pet him. While I appreciate loving dogs and all, what would make you think that was ok? I usually don't mind people petting Alastor when he is in my arms, but I was very obviously keeping him in there for a reason. I didn't want him getting manhandled! How did this woman know he wasn't a bitter, or sick, or gets sick easily, or that he is MY dog and I zipped the stroller up because I want it that way?! I must admit I am often to shocked by people's behavior while it's happening but always think of something I should have said when they have gone, however, this time I managed to tell the woman that he jumps out and gets hurt and that he runs away very fast if the stroller doesn't stay zipped (which isn't true). She just looked at me like I was daft. But in reality, she is.
Unfortunately, Alastor has yet to learn to walk on a leash because I am always holding him or have him contained up off the ground when out. I am just so worried he will get hurt, stolen etc because he is so tiny and people have no manners.
I was wondering if it is bad manners to pet a dog one has met before, without asking, and been allowed to pet before? That doesn't bother me, but I wondered how other people feel.
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