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Originally Posted by mizzwanned  Everytime i go to my brother's house i take my dogs with me and always feel like they are unwelcome. My brother and gf say its fine i take them and don't mind however everytime i go my brother who is not a dog lover at all, always has something negative to say. He always make remarks about how its ridiculous i buy them clothes, or treat them like babies..how they shouldn't be on the couch, they are animals and should be treated like it(sometimes i wonder how we were even raised together lol) we are so different. Today we were there with my dad and his fam, since my brother is also a new dad. We don't like to leave the dogs alone so we always make an effort to take atleast 2 with us, a couple times we take all 3 but it is stressful enough to keep them all calm in the car(my bro lives upstate) and its about a 40 min drive. It's even more stessful when my brother is making all these remarks about my dogs. I try to go there as much as i can to see my adorable neice but it's more of an uncomfortable visit when me and my dogs are the target. I'm starting to think i should just leave them home, it makes me not want to go as often and that sucks cause i do want to see my niece grow up and all the stages that she goes thru, she is now starting to crawl, she even seems like she likes the dogs, she always smiles at them but with the way my brother is i wouldn't be surprised if she grows up to hate dogs too  . Do any of you have family that does not approve of you spoiling your dogs? How do you handle it? |
I think it's best to leave them at home on those visits. Eventually he might make some stupid comment and that can start an ugly fight. Some people do feel that dogs/cats etc are just that animals. Usually those that are so not inclined towards animals have children that love them. So be ready for him to have to eat humble pie and buy his baby girl a doggie/best friend in a few years.