06-15-2008, 09:12 PM
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Originally Posted by LittleMansMomma Yep, I sure do! My FIL makes such comments about me dressing Little Man. He is a dog lover though. He really don't make comments except when he sees Little Man and he's dressed. I just really ignore the comments. He has his opinions, but that's all he has. He don't take care of Little Man, I do.
Now, I do have an Aunt and she lives with my cousin and they have a yorkie. I normally don't go for a visit with Little Man. But when we have really serve storms, Little Man and I use go down to their house. She makes comments like, "Oh I just can't breathe. Larissa, you need to take Little Man downstairs." I take him downstairs and we (Little Man & I) hang out down there while we are there. I'll go up to get something to drink and she'll say, "I'm sorry Larissa, but he's shedding like crazy and its making my asthma act up." The only thing I say is, "It's okay, I understand." and I let it go at that. Then, I go back downstairs and be with my Little Man and watch the weather. While everyone including their yorkie are upstairs.
I love my aunt, and she's the one that invites us (Little Man & I) to come over when it storms. But after 3 times of not feeling welcome and her comments about Little Man all the while holding their yorkie. I just quit going over there when it storms. I now stay home, watch the weather, and do alot of praying. I have my "storm" room ready at all times and everything I need in that room, so when I need to take shelter all I gotta do is grab up Little Man and go hide and keep praying that Little Man and I will stay safe.
All in all if something is said about my baby, I'll say something at first, just to defend myself and Little Man. If it continues, I'll either ignore it or exclude me and Little Man from the situation, and that includes some family functions. But most of my and hubby's family don't mind if Little Man is with us. They do love him and think he's the sweetest baby there is. |
I'm sorry, it doesnt make sense how she would be allergic to Little Man and not her Yorkie. If i were you i would also feel unwelcome and would rather stay home with my own. Shoot, i would opt. not to go to my brother's and just stay home with my 3 but i have to see my niece and i had to see my dad today for father's day. Also i love it up there, it's peaceful and much nicer than the city. Do you get bad storms frequently? |
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