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Originally Posted by Sunnie  I just want to say I so know how you are feeling. But that being said, I would like to offer some advice. DO NOT tell him that you think you will be bored and would rather be somewhere else. He is close with his family and they are close to you which should be telling you that he also think YOU are the one. If you tell him you don't want to go.. he AND HIS FAMILY will more than likely feel like you do not want to bond with them. Part of being in love is showing consideration and love BACK to him AND his family. It sometimes is a hard concept.. but really when you settle down with someone special it always includes their family. If they are close.. that is wonderful because families are the one thing you can count on... if they are NOT close.. well then you are still inhereting them.. just not on the same level. I think you should go.. show some excitement and look for fun things to do. really take the time to get closer to him family.. they sound like wonderful people. You won't regret not hurting him by telling him you don't want to go. I would hate to see that drive a wedge between you. There are so many people who have problems.. cheating, abuse, etc.. Your guy and his family sound wonderful and if you go into it with openb eyes and an open heart I know you will be happy you went. |
Thank you! I am going and I would never tell him that I dont want to or would be bored. I do wish that it was not our first overnight trip. And I do wish it were somewhere a little more my style (and his style) than the cape but... Im going to have fun. I always can make the most out of any situation. I hate being upset or miserable, then everyone is miserable and its not fair, plus if I hold onto being a brat, then its just ME who is losing out, noone else.
Thanks again!!!