I guess there's just no easy answers.. just lot's of questions and ton's of information to sift through. You need to make some decisions that you feel comfortable with. There are some people that you may feel more closly represent the way you feel and think than others and their ideas more closely follow yours.. well, then that's the club or group you tend to more closely associate with. That's the great part about having different clubs with different ideas. So, actually, this is all a good thing.
Different ideas are always good, I guess we just need to work harder on listening and accepting others points of view and not thinking ours is the only way.
-Diana