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Originally Posted by celstu1  Ask your vet if you can set up a payment plan for Abbys spay and pay off the vet yourself. You dont even have to tell your family. They will wonder why Abby can't get pregnant but you dont have to tell them that you had her fixed.
Its so not fair when someone gives you something but then thinks they have a say or can what they want with the something they gave you just because they paid for it. |
I agree with you.
Regardless of who paid for the puppy, she belongs to you and she is your responsibility. That means if you have to go against your family's wish and have her spayed and risk their anger, then it's something you must do. Abbey relies on you to take care of her and protect her. She can't defend herself or speak for herself.
I know it's hard to do something without your family's support and financial assistance but you have to be strong for Abbey. Don't let them make you feel guilty about this -- you are without a doubt doing the right thing. Why don't you look into a low cost clinic? Some places perform spays for $75.
Best of luck to you and Abbey.