I just wanted to thank every person who has commented here and also PMed me. I'm sorry I haven't gotten back to some of you; I've been SO busy with work since Wednesday I haven't had time to think! I will be responding within the next few days, I promise! Please know how much it means to me to know how much all of you care!
Just an update...the hubby and I are actually doing pretty well right now. I finally calmed down enough to ask the questions I needed the answers to and also to actually LISTEN to his responses. We cried together for about an hour straight and just held each other. He is willing to do whatever it takes to get past this. THANK GOD!!!!
I'm thankful we are dealing with this sooner rather than later, because hopefully it won't even be too much of a factor in the years to come.
O and we have an appointment Tuesday to start dealing with all this.
Again, thank you all so much! I seriously do LOVE my YT family