I am glad that you all seem to agree with how I handled this bratty kid. 2 years of this kid being nasty to my son is just a bit much for me to forget and just let him hop in and use my kids because we have a pool. I did let my next door neighbors son and daughter in because they alway's play nice with my younger 2 and their son gets to spend the night 2 Saturdays every month( we take turns having the kids at each house)
I let this kid over last year when we got the Nintendo Wii and he showed up after hearing we had it. i thought maybe this would get him to be nicer to Lincoln at school, He played for the most part of the day. I let him over 3 more times because Lincoln asked if he could play, about 2 week later this kid was back to his mean nasty self. Lincoln thinks that he will just use him for his pool like he did the Wii, and he said he doesn't need a "fake friend".
We have been involved with his parents from the first time it was brought to our attention this kid was so mean. This year at the bus stop He pushed Lincoln down and kicked his head
he got suspended for 3 day's for it and we were called to have an intervention with Lincoln and this kid and his family and the Principal. They were mad that thier kid got into trouble and got 3 day suspension, but cared less on to why he was tormenting my kid. I guess things have been bad and the school has suggested this child see a counselor to talk with and at first they did not want him to go, but now he is. I hope they are able to find out why he is so mean and bullies people like he does.