We put a pool in our yard last year too andwe also have a hot tub. All of a sudden lots of neighborhood kids want to come over. I think that just is natural. Ive never not allowed any of them to swim because My Daughter gets along with everyone. If there was someone who picked on her and she didnt like them they would not be allowed over. I would have told them much like you did so no I dont think you were harsh. |