Trust me I know it is hard. But if you and your husband want to survive this you will. Counseling does help major too. I see a therapist due to my husband's unfaitfillness (made out with two females in the last year) and one was this last March! He also goes to AA. But for now we are both trying (he even moved states for me) and it is working. It takes time patience and A LOT of work. We don't have children except for the furbabies so we are doing this on the pure fact that we love each other. I was (still am) going through the same body image issue. It is not worth it. Don't blame yourself. I'm sorry you are having to go through this. So very sorry. |