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Originally Posted by cariblonde Well everyone thanks for your input, I know some of you are gong to think Im crazy but I decided to move.. I went today and put down the security deposit so I officially move in June 24th!!
I hope you all will be happy for me dispite most of your opinions to stay put. I called my mom this morning and got her advice and she said in her opinion it would be the best thing for me.. She said I have always been a city girl at heart trapped in the country and she knew I was never happy here even before my ex and I split up.. She said if I dont like it or something happens I can always sub let it and I will always have a place to live if I ever want to come back....
I feel so many things right now: Terrified for obvious reasons, Hopeful for my future, a little bittersweet sadness this is the place i grew up, but most of all I feel excitement to fianlly have my own personal space and hope for the future! thank you all for your wonderful advice |
GOOD LUCK ! I was going to say if the commute etc was a wear on you then go for it - but then I saw Free rent in your house and that would have been a big decision for me too - I don't know if I could have made the decision to move if I lived rent free....the bills add up FAST.
I recently did what you're doing - (only my husband died)

and let me tell you - apartment life is SO different than living in a house with a yard.
I'm not used to it yet but coping. I wish you all the best and you got a great deal !! I pay that for a one Bedroom here in houston and I'm not in the best part of town but AM close to my job.
Tiggerwit's right - it's a big change. I feel really lucky cause I did find a downstairs place WITH a back patio in a nice courtyard - but it's still an adjustment - I think if I had free rent - a home with a yard Id have stayed but then again - NO commuting is also a BIG PLUS - so congratulations - I hope your move goes well...It is kind of nice to look around and say this is all mine and you don't have to spend hours driving to work - cleaning and mowing grass