I feel so bad for you. I know I would be upset too. You do have to remember though that men and women view sex differently and in his mind I'm sure he doesn't think that what he did was the same as being physically unfaithful to you. That probably isn't any consolation but I had to say it. I think you should seek some professional help. A marriage counselor would be the best thing for you and your marriage. Good luck I will keep you and your husband in my prayers.
Lou |