Personally, I wouldn't move. I'd get rid of the bed and buy a nice new one with all new linens. And I'd redecorate the way you want things to be so they don't remind you of the past. I'm sorry. Im so jaded, but it's crazy to leave the great place you're in now b/c of a stupid man. WHY let him make your life more uncomfortable???? I'd just erase as much of him from there as possible and go on and live a really happy life. You're a beautiful girl, and the best revenge is always living a good life
. Oh...and if you really want to move, you can take some time to save up money while you make your plans.