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Old 05-31-2008, 05:51 AM   #13
hasrv4fun
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Default don't show it bothers you

I have found that people that like you and like to tease , try to get a rise out of you by doing the very thing that lights your fuse

You have 2 options here - get liguored up , blow up and lose otherwise good neighbor/ friends

or choose to just ignore the comment untill all of a sudden when he sees he can't "get to you" it will stop -- i can't tell you how many times in the 23 years i have raised Yorkies that a "friend" or neighbor had done the same thing and i learned early on that if you don't respond - they quit

I know how hurtfull it can feel - I love my little Dillon and all the others and like all good mamas we get defensive - just a natural reaction but i found that ignoring it keeps lots of friends and neighbors
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