[Mybabyboymax]

Originally Posted by MyFairLacy

I read her posts on the other thread, and while I don't agree with every bit of the advice she gave, I don't believe she was rude in her posts. And I believe most of her postings came from HER personal experience with her dog and what SHE would personally do if she was in the OPs situation. I also believe she was showing sincere concern for the OP's dog. Other than that, it seemed like she was having to defend her opinions because some didn't like them.

I've seen a pattern in this forum today too. Please remember everyone that you can not read a person's tone online. Just because someone doesn't write something long and drawn out with 100 doesn't mean they are being rude. Some people just get to the point..doesn't mean they are being rude. I think a lot of potentially helpful threads have gone sour because of unneccesary accusations. I don't think we should ever have to fight about someone's tone as no one truly knows the tone but the poster...it's not fair to the poster to accuse them of having a certain tone when you don't know. Instead of fighting about tone, just stick to the topic...

There are breeders here with a lot of experience that are so helpful and do so many good things. But most of the breeders' attitudes lately have really put a damper on the word "breeder" around here.

very well put