Well Congratulations on your Graduation (Both of You!!!) That is awewome!!!
That's terrible your ceremony was so bad. My son graduated 2 weeks ago from UT (University of Texas) and they did two ceremonies. The first one was at the big convention/concert venue, they had separate ceremonies for each school (his was Engineering) and they called out the names and they walked across the stage. The next night was the University-wide one, no reading of names, but speakers and conferring of degrees and Fireworks too!! You guys deserved that kind of ceremony as well...graduating from college is a BIG, BIG deal!! Again, wishing you both the best and again