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Originally Posted by Mybabyboymax

Im sorry but no one felt her answer was "rude" until the 15th post when Anne posted her feelings on it (which was written rudely by the way). Once she said something everyone chimed in....why? if it was so "rude" why didnt anyone say something before? And because her answer was short and to the point and didnt write it how you would have ...it was wrong? what people have to realize is that you will not always agree with the advice given but we have a right to say what we feel, she felt that the best thing was to go to the vet, so she said it and because she didnt add a smiley face to it you guys jump on her post. you say you are asking for a little bit of respect but you have to give it to get it. Its not having the last word that gets these fights going its not agreeing to AVOID the drama. You didnt like what she said...oh well in life we arent going to like everything.

I want to say something here to you before this thead gets locked which I know is coming! And I've not read no farther into the thread for I stopped at yours thread to answer it. I beg your pardon also...I did what A respectful BREEDER should do in trying to CONTROL her words of RUDENESS and I for one reported her rude vet post to AMD as soon as I read it!!!!!

And I for one wanted it deleated as I KNEW it was going to cause trouble!!!! But they did not deleate it. So when she came back on a DOWNED ANNE the way she did I thought I have to say something due to knowing what Anne is going though with loosing her 2 babies. This is MY WHY of jumping in!!!!!!!!! Not to be rude to others to help others that are getting jumped on due to a person not knowing how to post nicely at all.

Now you tell me if you was the OP and you ask her very same question, and she gave you the very same Vet answer you wouldn't take it as rude at all??? Come on get real...It was rude and that is point blank it. There's NO reason for her to say it the way she did, she's not a BREEDER who knows how to help her or a Vet that I know of. So why the rudness with almost everyone of her post here on this thread. Why not say I can see maybe how you all could view it as a rude post but I never ment it that way???

We do ask for respect and give it more often the we're given credit for. Our respectfullness that we try to give others is not taken as respect by others for they want to turn our helpful advise into a drama thread.

I'm for one not going to agree when the OP does have other options and there are Very Experienced Breeders here who have been down that very same path is is walking down right now.

I'm sorry if I offended you in any way. It's all of course my OPO tho. Lee