His grandmother was told she has two weeks left. She has cancer in her brain. Its not going to go away. The reason why we need the inheritance is because she would not allow my fiancé to have a job because she wanted him at the house with her all the time to take care of her and his father who is disabled. She also didn't want me to have a full time job because she wanted someone to run all her errands and do all the shopping. So on my money which isn't a lot a month, I had to pay for all the stuff for the puppies, plus pay bills, and gas for two cars. Thats not easy on someone who doesn't get paid very much.
We need the inheritance because we were not able to save up money. Plus the doctors told her last month, the cancer was going away and she would have 10-12 months. Things happen. Now her cancer won't go away and its still in her brain. Just last month, Mike had to take her to radiation for ten days straight to get rid of the cancer.
If she would have let him have at least a part time job then we could have enough money by now to get a place of our own without the inheritance, but because we moved up here to help her she told us one of us couldn't have a job. Since it's his family, he stayed home all day.
All I'm asking for is advice on which one to choose. I'm not really looking to be critized and stuff, I get enough of that around here now. I go to bed every nigh crying because I know the next day will be worse, and so far, nothing is better. |