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Originally Posted by YORKIE_mom_2008  Wow!  How harsh is that! Maybe you shouldn't assume that you know the whole situation and get over it! She did not say anything about how she was spending the inheritance money but simply that she needed advice on what would be best for her dogs during that time! Who knows maybe they know for sure is is going to pass away. and judging by option B they do not live near the grandmother and that is why they are staying around. not just so they can get their hands on grannies money. geez! some people around here just have to get off their high horses!  |
She asked for advice, and I gave it. There is a difference between being supportive and being an enabler. If she had said she was waiting for a job opening or finishing school, my advice would be different, but she waiting for someone to die before she can have the funds to have a home. You need to be able to care for yourself before you can care for a pet. I stand by my advice and suggest that since she is young, and has no children, it would also be a good idea to acquire a set of skills that are marketable, and will enable her to provide a home for herself, and others.