My mom has spoiled him a lot he is the Favorite grandson and i am trying to reverse some of the ego that has come with it. In her eyes he can do no wrong and i think this has added to the problem
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I've had this problem only with my oldest one. I am an only child and he was the first and only grandchild. To add to the mess we shared a house with my parents in order to save to buy one. My mother acted as if he was his mother and undermined my discipline methods. I had to tell her privately to let me discipline him and my other boys and not butt in. We've also had other problems, medical, brother with autism and chose to take him to therapy. He is now 17 and well adjusted. I wish I would have taken steps earlier. Maybe this can help you now.
