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Originally Posted by sheilajom  That sounds like something normal that a little boy would try. Little boys can be a mess sometimes. Some are harder than others. I would try to get him something to do with boys his own age that behave, maybe it would rub off on him. I still suggest some kind of activity. Have you asked him what he might like to do for the summer, picking something he wants to do could help with the screaming crying after he gets there thing. But you should not let him quit just because he has a fit. He will learn that when he wants something all he has to do is have a fit to get it. |
Well the karate thing it was new for him he wanted to do it, he brought a flyer home from school and was very excited. I told him it would be fun and it would be our time together that we would go every Tuesday just me and him to do it. i also told him we could go for icecream after ( you know just spend time with him) Well i was completely embarressed he has reverted back to a 4 yr old i am not kidding. I made him stay the whole class he sat there i talked to the sensai and he said you can't force him to do it. I wasn't going to pay to have him sit there every week and bawl like a baby. It was a privledge to do this not a right and if i give into him and take him every week it them becomes a punishment for him and me and that defetes the purpose of having fun time together.
This kid has plenty of toys and plenty of things to do it's not like he is acting out because he is bored. he is being out right defyant and rude. This is not how i raised him. I am sorry i am just frustrated