[daisy mae06]

Originally Posted by chloeandj

how about taking a parenting class? or talking with a councelor? Also you may want to go to the pediatrician and get a complete physical with bloodwork. He may have something going on medically. (this was my husband's case when he was a child) Sounds like something is going on to make his behavior change like that. It could be that he needs some help with coping with a little brother. My kids are 6 and 9. Playing with fire at 8 is more than a bit scary and the lighters should be completely out of his reach (and anything else that is dangerous). Maybe I put too many fears in their head but they also would never go outside without me watching them, they know that crazy people like to steal children, be sure to have a serious talk with him about that. Spanking is out for me too, i take away their very favorite thing if they don't listen and i never give in.

Great advice