Oh dear,
I am so sorry about your very sad and devastaing situation. I looked back at your threads and instantly remembered you in seeing the picture of all of the things you had already purchased for LeiLani. She was truely a part of your life even before she was born. I as so sorry for your loss.
As for your decision: If a yorkie girl is what you've always dreamed of owning, then wait and find her. She will come along. If the uncertainty of the possible pregnancy and IF a girl will be in the litter is to much for you, then I agree with leipshen's post
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i realize that you have found a breeder whom you greatly respect and trust. It is understandable that you want to get your baby from someone with these all important qualities. I would, however, consider the possibility of asking your breeder (friend) if she might be willing to refer you to another breeder that she knows and also trusts. If she is a very reputable breeder chances are that she knows of other equally as trustworthy breeders. I am sure she feels great compassion, as well , great appreciation for your loyal patience.
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I would bet that your breeder would be more than willing to help you in that way.
Owning a little girl was obviously your first choice, but little boys are just as cute and just as fun. There are plenty of cute clothes for boys too and the items you bought I assume can be exchanged.
From the title of your thread (
What Do I Do? LeiLani Passed Monday, Do I get a 5 Yr old Girl or Baby Boy?), it seems maybe you've subconciously started to make your decision???? I just noticed there was no reference about waiting for another little girl.
Go to your breeder on Sunday; when you see the 5 year old girl and the boy puppy, your heart will guide you. You will just know if either of those two is the yorkie for you. I wish you strength and happiness in the decision you will make. Let us know how it turns out. I will be anxious to see your new family member whomever she (or he) will be.