Debbi, my heart goes out to you.. It would be terrible to live at 50 with such verbal abuse.. stay strong and get out when you can..Men will only act and behave like this if they think they can get away with it.. 
I always tell my hubby.. I would never remarry again.. nor would I ever want to live with some one again.. like you have your house and I have mine.. 
I have seen so much of people with a good relationship or some one they truly loved,. to end up like you.. 
I too have been thinking about you. just did not want to ask how it was going.. 
Yup good thing I am not around him.. I would give him a peace of my mind for I just think men who pick on women have their own issues and by doing so it makes them feel bigger and better.. (in their minds)... anne     |