ok my eyes are bugging out after reading my own post - SORRY THAT WAS SO LONG !!
when I Said 'honesty' - I better clarify
I don't mean calling someone a crazy idiot for what they're thinking - but I DO think if someone has a bad idea or has no clue that someone should SPEAK UP and guide them or tell them that is just NOT a good idea -
shutting up now ...I just bored my own self. I should know better than to post when I'm really tired
