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Originally Posted by TeddyandTiffy  ..........It's not right to down us when we tell the truth...Not being hateful...We're not trying to be hateful with everyone, but sometimes you have to get your point across to those who won't take advice the easy way...With a simple well you do it this way or get this to help you..... |
I understand what you are saying, and don't think anyone object to telling the truth. What is hard to swallow is when breeders and others (not meaning you) post responses like Response #1 above. When they could just as easily post one like Response #2. Now, if after several nice tries the OP just doesn't get it, I can understand being more blunt. But in the long run, like one person here said, you catch more flies with honey than vinegar. Just because it is the truth, doesn't mean it is good to be blunt and rude. I view it like this: If your child is in line with you at the grocery store, behind a rather large person, and your child says very loudly, "You are so fat!" Do you say, "Oh well, they're just being honest. Nothing wrong with that." I would hope not. What they say may be true, but it is rude to state it that way.