Just to be on the safe side I am not trying to attack anyone for giving honest advice I simply mean to urge people to use more tact to get there meanings across. No don't sit by and say nothing because you think you be attacked but say it in way where you are trung to help someone. Ask ?s before assuming. Like the OP said. Everyone has to start somewhere. Help them by guiding not "being blunt which comes across hateful". It is all a matter of eveyone being civil. Off your advice if they don't take it leave them alone and let someone else try to help. |