[RowdysMom]

I'm sorry, I really don't know what to tell you - I clicked and read and then started to not reply, then thought that wasn't very nice.

Anyway, I guess I'd lean toward not helping him and letting the chips fall where they may. He needs to grow up some and learn responsibility. It may be really hard on you though, to see him suffer. But it is true that we grow and develop through hard times. That's when we become stronger - so maybe it will help both of you to let him find his own way through this.

Maybe you can let him find his way and intervene only if a disaster is about to happen.

Someone said something like they may leave now, but they will be back. It too, think that is true.

Good luck, I'm sorry you have to go through this.