[cooperk]

I know what you're feeling (a bit). I have a 15 yr old son from my previous marriage and have done the same thing with him. I work very hard to make sure he turns out OK (my husband says overtime). It's tough on these kids from divorces. It can also be a deep guilt for the Mom.

My older sister keeps telling me, "they leave you but will come back." I think your son will grow quite a bit on his own the next year. It will be hardest on you, I'm sure. I don't have any out of the nest yet, but know I will definately get a new Yorkie for each exit of my children! In fact, I think my son's increasing independence from me is why I got my second dog (got my empty nest puppy early).

I laugh at my older sisters because they both got a chihuaua (sp?) and were carrying them around everywhere, when they had an empty nest. At least I got a cute, nice dog (Trixie).

Chear up girl! From the sound of it, you've done a terrific job. I can tell from the amount you are worrying! A mother's guilt is huge, isn't it?