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Originally Posted by MindieRose

I said "to assume so is just ignorance" not, "hey, youre ignorant". The definition of ignorant is: Unknowledgeable or uneducated. That just means one doesnt know about something, not that they are stupid. It is ignorant to make assumptions about what pregnancies may have done to a womans anatomy. You said yourself "but it's the nicest I'm willing to be to anyone who thinks they are in a position to question what is going on in my uterus. It is truly bizarre to me how many people think that is in any way their business." So what makes you think its anyone elses business what goes on in hers, or anyone elses that decides to have a lot of children?
I cannot believe how harsh some people can be about a woman who is a wonderful mother and wife, and more wise than most. She isnt a "baby making machine", she is fulfilling God's will for her life, and I think if anyone has a problem with that, they can take it up with Him.

Well I certainly would never ask someone to explain their reproduction choices to me- you're right it's none of my business. I simply said I would not put my body through that. I've already stated I was not talking about the obvious issues which to me would mean weight and "intimacy issues". Most women know it goes way beyond that and I'm sure you do as well. I am not asking you to explain your body to me. Honestly I am not the least bit interested- it is completely your business and it is a private matter IMO. You can have a bunch of babies, the Duggars can have a bunch of babies and I can choose not to. No debate required. You also do not need to feel you need to define words for me. You do not.

Now I am finished with this thread. Everyone has the right to their own opinions and I am not asking anyone to defend their's and I am finished defending mine.